The First Time My Child Spoke to Me in His Own Words | Episode 14
Episode 14: From Autism Diagnosis to College Freshman
The first time my child spoke to me in his own words.
Within the Village Engagement Matrix™, children between the ages of 2–4 years old are in the Sprout Stage, while parents and caregivers are in the Explorer Phase.
During the Explorer Phase, the role of the parent or caregiver is to discover who their child is as an individual by observing their interests, preferences, strengths, sensitivities, communication style, and unique way of engaging with the world.
In Episode 14, we discuss one of the most meaningful moments of my parenting journey—the first time my son spoke to me using words that came from his own mind and were intended specifically for me.
Just before his fifth birthday, my son looked at me and said, “Hi, Mommy.”
Those two words changed everything.
For the first time, I knew his thoughts had traveled from his mind, through his voice, and directly to me.
Today, as an Oak Tree, the sweetest sound I hear is still my son talking to me.
Whether we’re discussing college, his future, our family, or simply talking about life, every conversation reminds me of the little boy whose voice I waited years to hear.
Through the lens of the Village Engagement Matrix™, this episode illustrates the power of the Explorer Phase.
Before my son consistently had words to tell me who he was, my responsibility was to observe, listen, and learn him.
Once he found his voice, those conversations became one of the greatest gifts of my life. ❤️🌰🌱🌳
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